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Toileting - supporting your child

Does trying to get your child to start going to the toilet themselves cause you anxiety?

Going to the toilet is a big milestone for young children. It's important to approach the process with patience and encouragement. Every child develops at their own pace, so try to stay positive and consistent.

Here are some resources and information to support you and your child:

Podcast

Listen to the podcast 'O'r Napi i'r Poti' by Teulu Gwynedd for an entertaining conversation with parents who share their experiences as well as professionals who provide guidance and answers to some of the questions raised. (Welsh Only)

Books

There are many books available to help you in your local library:

Useful websites

Websites that offer suggestions and advice for potty training.

Starting school

It is expected that your child can use the toilet before starting school, unless they have a medical condition or additional learning needs.

Before starting school, the child is expected to:

  • Be able to tell an adult when they need to use the toilet
  • Be able to use the toilet with minimal assistance
  • Be able to manage their clothing (pulling pants up/down)
  • Be familiar with wiping and basic hygiene, such as hand washing

See the Parent Information Handbook / School Admissions Policy

ALN (Additional Learning Needs) Guidance and Resources

Not quite there yet?

That’s okay! If your child is still working on toileting skills, we encourage you to contact:

Potty Training Pack

Teulu Gwynedd has potty training packs available for parents and carers, If you would like a pack, contact:
teulugwynedd@gwynedd.llyw.cymru

Helping each other!

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Together, we can help ensure that potty training is a positive process and gives a child a confident and happy start to start using the toilet independently.